In life, there might be times that your past would stand in front of you. The guy with whom you spent a lovely time at some moment in life might be in front of your eyes again; at this moment being emotionally strong is necessary. Spending most of the time together and sharing all your secrets is a phase where the feeling of likeness arises in one’s heart. But life is never certain and time might change the person and due to that change, you might feel that you can no more think your future with him. Now the question is what will you do? The guy might have changed with time but you still like him; what will you decide to do?
Here is little advice in case you want to cut off with him.
Stay Busy
First of all become busy. If you’ll be busy then you won’t really get a lot of time to think of him, so try keeping yourself busy. The more you will think about him the more you will get hurt.
Don’t text or call
You need to control your emotions and take a step towards not texting him or calling him because the long conversation will confuse you again and might stop you from cutting off.
Be emotionally strong
If you want to cut off, then you need to be emotionally strong. The old lovely memories will flash many times and can make you weak. Hence being emotionally strong is really important at this point in time.
Avoid taking a decision in emotions
Sometimes you might be frustrated by seeing the change in the guy, but never take any decision when you are in emotions. Because there might be times when both of you might have a good conversation and you’ll feel that he has not really changed. Let me tell you it’s your emotions that are telling you that he hasn’t changed. Don’t let your emotions fool you.
Avoid meeting him or talking to him
If you see him, no need to go and talk to him; you need to stop talking. Being emotionally strong is a must because at some moment you feel like talking, then you need to control your emotions and yourself and do your work. This is how your feeling of likeness will start fading. The less conversation, the less is the feelings.
Spend time with others
Very important point is to spend time with your other friends or colleagues. You have a life, go live it and enjoy every moment of life. By doing so, you are slowly and gradually removing that guy out of your head and heart.
Finally, a day will come when being emotionally strong will work and the guy or anything related to him will stop bothering you. That my friend is a day when you will realize that you are successful in cutting off with the guy without him being aware of it.
